Please share your experiences with us so we can all learn from them; the signs, patterns, symptoms etc. One common disturbing side effect of this disgusting act that I learned about, and sadly witnessed, is childhood and teen bed-wetting. Another is painful s*x in adulthood. Never in my life did I think these heinous acts could happen so close to home. Sending hugs and love to any and all who have memories of or experienced this deep level of evil.